In a previous article you discovered Mexicans can’t handle shame. And you discovered the operational disaster you can have on your hands when your worker feels shame. You must read this. It’s worth your time.
One HUGE way Mexicans feel shame is when they are blamed.
That’s why your workers give you answers like “No se” or “Algo sucedio” (I don’t know or Something happened).
Those answers avoid a sure path to blame shame.
So what you should do is blame things, not people.
The strategy sounds crazy to American entrepreneurs
because we are all about individual accountability.
Before I give you the way to blame things, you must be willing to think about your own American culture. Ok?
Especially decisive, successful owners/managers like you.
When you want an answer you like to go direct
and get to the point. No time wasted. Just the facts
so you can make your next decision. Fair enough?
Mexicans aren’t direct. No straight line to the
correct answer. It’s one big MEXICAN CIRCLE.
If you want the real answer, you typically have to
approach in a circular way.
Females learn this technique fast.
Males, you’ll have to work harder to
train your brain to understand this concept.
Example: You’re sitting in your truck and at a distance you see your Mexican super or worker accidently backed over a backpack blower. They get out of the truck to see what happened and try to start the blower.
Won’t start.
He doesn’t think you saw it happen.
Your American style kicks in. You drive over
and ask “What did you do?” Hoping for an honest
explanation. Often, the answer may be
“something happened” or “no se”
Mexicans often say this supernatural statement
because Mexicans struggle to take blame.
Blame is shame.
To an American, this all can seem nuts. Why?
Because Americans are buried in their own culture too!
You tell the driver American style…
“I saw You run over the blower. You have to make sure everything is in the truck before You move it.” “You know we talked about this in safety training”.
What YOU just did is alienate the Mexican, shamed him,
embarassed him and in essence called him
a stupid big fat liar. What YOU did is stick a dagger
in his heart. He knows you now hate him. No way out.
He thinks you’ll fire him. He has shamed his crew, and family.
He might even consider leaving. Attitude goes bad.
He gets gun shy. Fears making the simplest decisions.
Might even undermine and spread his fears amongst the crew.
It’s not that the Mexican is some sensitive,
thin skinned mamsie pamsie.
You’re faced with complex Mexican cultural code.
You can’t change how a Mexican thinks. (If you think you can, slap yourself repeatedly until you wake up from your dream)
So here’s how you leverage Mexican cultural code
to keep your team rolling proud.
First, don’t use the word YOU. Don’t blame the person.
Blame things. There’s not enough time in this article
to get into the blame explanation. Just hear me out.
The best approach would be to get out of your truck, say hello shake hands and mention “It looks like something happened”. The Mexican will most likely say “yes, something happened”.
You will say “looks like the truck ran this over”
The Mexican will probably agree.
The next thing you might say is “we have to watchout, these trucks can be dangerous”.
Using this approach you blamed things, not people.
No blame, no shame. Your worker and crew continues to work in harmony. Life is good.
Sounds crazy? Sounds stupid? To an American yes. You gotta practice this. Doesn’t cost you a dime to implement. Your returns are in spades.
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